Why Would I Pay for a Male Escort, a Gentleman Caller?
Why would anyone pay for a male escort?
Let’s face it.
Hiring the services of a professional gentleman caller isn’t for everybody.
As I have written previously, much of Australia is ultra-conservative when it comes to all things sex and intimacy, and we suffer a strong patriarchal chauvinism that instils belief in us that it is wrong. This unfortunately thwarts many a woman’s would-be aspirations to hire and ultimately benefit from the services of a gentleman caller.
I have personally witnessed the empowerment that my clients experience, a new confidence that kicks in after choosing to use my services as a gentleman caller. It is remarkable and such a satisfying thing to witness. In fact, it’s one of the main reasons that I do what I do.
It can be fair to say that for many of us, the conventional long-term relationship not only includes its considerable share of challenges, but it also comes with the potential for ruin and destruction.
Flip over to the ‘single life’ side of things and it’s not much better. There is much challenge and abhorrence that lies beneath the illusion of ‘plenty of fish in the sea’. And I’ve already gone into the depths of dating app hell in my series of blogs.
Benefits of a Gentleman Caller
So, who benefits from hiring the services of a gentleman caller?
- The ultra-busy
- The divorced (and the married)
- The practical
- The curious
- Those suffering things like sexual trauma, abuse, neglect and intimacy issues
- Those who would like things as they like them, on their terms and when it suits them
- Those enduring the overbearing burden of expectation as the illusion of security and devotion wears thin
- The empowered
Let’s Hear from Those Who Have Benefited
My clients never cease to amaze me and point me to the true north of exactly why and what the key benefits and reasons for using the services of a gentleman caller are. What’s more, they articulate this so very well (so much better than my feeble attempts) as the excerpts you’re about to read directly from them show:
I think one massive thing that stops a lot of women is the idea of “why would I pay for that”. It’s not real, it’s not my reality and the thought of having to pay for it means its all pretend. But for me, I never believed that such a connection could form, and that by paying (or at least via the client-escort parameters/dynamic) that this can alleviate us from expectation and just let an ongoing connection form organically and without any smidgeon of pressure.”
I’ve never felt prioritised before in my life. When I was a young lady I was easily dismissed for choosing to enjoy myself as a young and single carefree woman. And then every actual relationship I’ve had, including my marriage, I’ve just changed everything about myself to try and be what they wanted. But you’re still not a priority when you do that. Give them everything they want and they no longer want you. They’ll do whatever they like because they know they’ve got you there. I don’t think I’d be alone in this. A lot of women would be treated this way. It’s another big factor of why seeing you is so good. It’s something many women wouldn’t even consider nor consider to be important until they actually experience what it’s like.”
I really feel like our time this week cemented a lot of things for me. Just this awesome dynamic that we share and that there’s actually no limit or end on this journey and its trajectory. I just love the feeling of normalcy and the regularity of it all too. It’s such a comforting feeling. I love it.”
And that’s why you are so amazingly good at all areas of escorting, because you are both sides of the coin 100%. You are kind and thoughtful which is the relationship-type man that women see themselves with but then you are also this epic sexual being that takes things to an epic level. Women don’t know what to do with that cause we think it doesn’t exist. We all think you have to choose one or the other. It’s why I always say, L, you’re made for this profession!”
By doing this we are both still putting ourselves first but also by doing that it allows us to be the best version of ourselves and be there for each other in a way that a majority of people can’t because they are so tied up in their own expectations of what it should all look like. And look at me now, smashing my goals left, right and centre cause I feel wanted and supported yet don’t feel any pressure to be exactly what the other person expects. Nothing but myself- and the very best version of myself at that.”
I wouldn’t still be here and be seeing you so often if you weren’t the awesome person you are and that’s what allowed all this to build into what it is. So remember that.”
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And then enjoy the benefits of a gentleman caller for yourself!
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