Why women prefer their dates tailored, not tindered
A male escort’s guide to swiping left on social awkwardness
It only hit me last night.
I’ve never been a fan of dating apps. I’ve called them out for causing numbness and indifference in how we experience relationships, not to mention the negative influence on our behaviour. If I recall…
“ …we’ve become animals – complacent, lazy, and indifferent.
We no longer need to be brave and bold, nor do we need patience or understanding.
Heck, we don’t even need to get out of our PJs.”
Yep, my words.
But what if I was wrong?
Who kisses who? And when? Removing the guesswork
I’ve always looked at apps from the perspective of being purely transactional – you know, where the excitement of finding the ideal partner is replaced with more of a marketplace experience?
Dating used to be about two people hanging out with the purpose of getting to know one another better. The excitement came from what was unknown. Now, we’re relying on an anonymous swipe to know if our perfectly curated profile – with the right pics and the right stats – deems us worthy.
But if dating apps bring so many negatives, why are more and more people using them?
And then it hit me.
The transactional nature of online dating presented its own unique set of challenges and, in doing so, presented itself as a solution for dealing with those challenges.
But if that’s the case, my question is this.
Why not avoid the labyrinth of social awkwardness all together with a male escort?
So many artificial rules and uncertainties… bypass them and simply enjoy the boyfriend experience
The subtleties of social interactions can often leave us feeling like we’re stepping onto the stage of an unscripted play.
Ever felt the weight of deciding between a handshake or a hug, a nod or a bow? When is the right time to hold hands? Who initiates the conversation? Is a kiss okay on a first date? At what time should you ask for a second date? It’s like choosing between a latte and an espresso in a world that speaks only of tea – and god forbid you get it wrong and the dreaded ghosting happens.
Rules, rules, rules… who made up all the rules?
Enter social anxiety – and the reason why the arm’s length control offered by dating apps ironically offers a solution to the social challenges those same apps helped create.
But what if, instead of dreading the mix of excitement and anxiety, you had a partner who led the way? And all while you remain in ultimate control.
Imagine being free from worrying about social cues and just enjoying the moment…
That’s what it’s like when we’re together; I take care of the details, so you can just relax and enjoy the company. The ability to read a situation and respond appropriately is, without a doubt, one of the most valuable (and important) skills I’ve developed as an escort.
The uncertainties of the first touch, the decision to sit down for a drink, when (or how) we make the transition into the bedroom… with me, they don’t exist.
Every social cue isn’t just met – I try to anticipate them before they even start to whisper at the edges of your thoughts.
Because my role is creating a space just for you – a space for fun, frivolity, and spontaneity.
A space where you can let go completely and enjoy the moment.
A space where you can be… you.
It’s never really about the service, it’s about how you feel during and long after it …
When women say that engaging a male escort is liberating, it’s true on so many levels. Beyond the sexual freedom, you’re liberated from the guesswork that comes with interpreting every word, movement, or gesture. There are no mind games, stilted conversations or arbitrary ‘rules’ – no filters and no pretence.
And instead of navigating the subtleties of social interactions, you‘re free to exhale, express, and engage.
The irony is, despite the myths and stereotypes about escorting, as an exclusively heterosexual male escort I can tell you this; us humans have so many needs beyond the physical which, for women, change as our demands of them do.
I see women who are incredibly successful leaders in genuinely influential organisations, regularly travelling from Australia to Europe and the United States for work. For them, liberation from the constant demands of decision-making and pressures of navigating social terrains is exquisite.
Why? Because for many women, male escort services provide a space for genuine intimacy. There’s no dancing around wants and needs and no filtering of who we are – just:
- Talking about what’s important to you
- Focusing on the present and enjoying the right now
- The absence of demands, questions, conclusions, and negative thoughts
- Room to be – and embrace – who you are.
So before you swipe…
Think about your needs and the very real options available. If the thought of navigating those small but significant awkward social interactions isn’t appealing right now, why not eliminate them?
There’s no rule book that says you need to go through the rigmarole of dating (or survive the labyrinth of dating apps) to experience what you deserve.
And when you’re ready, please get in touch
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If ever I can be of help, please do reach out – I’d love to hear from you!
